I’m sorry. I was wrong. Will you forgive me? These statements are not always easy to say, especially if you don’t mean them. Being on the receiving end of a hollow apology, often causes resentment and keeps the initial flare up flaming. People know what an apology feels like. They can hear it in your […]
Dear Gretchen, A lot of people tell me I need to ‘pressure’ my boyfriend to propose. They think that guys need to be ‘pushed’. What’s your take? -Waiting for a Ring in Los Angeles, CA Dear Waiting, Like Beyonce said, “If he liked it then he would have put a ring on it.” If a
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Do you ever feel bogged down by the things you feel like you should be doing? I’m not talking about the things that you have to do, like filing your taxes or exercising. I’m talking about the endless list of things you think would make you a better parent, spouse, friend, worker, and member of
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Today more than ever, I am coaching clients around the topics of stress and time management. My clients often tell me that they would like to be able to live out their dreams, but are too busy with the business of day-to-day living to add anything else to their already full plates. As a business
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When I was in my twenties, I used to think happiness meant being right. I had an answer for everyone, about what they should and shouldn’t do with their life and would offer it up whether they asked me or not. I truly believed my answers were best and thought people were making the wrong
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Do you ever wonder how you can craft your coaching identity in a crowded market? 🤔
Your methodology isn’t what makes you stand out; it’s your authenticity. ✨
Crafting a coaching identity means building on what resonates with your clients, staying true to your vision, and evolving with each interaction.
Embrace your distinct perspective, values, and voice—these are the true magnets that attract your ideal clients. 🧲
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Embrace these truths to reclaim your TRUE self! 💖
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We’ve all experienced times in life of wrestling with our own negative thoughts. 🤼♀️
When it comes to your coaching business, there is no exception.
“I should have done that better.”
“Why wasn’t I nicer to them when dealing with that?”
“I’m not good enough to do this…Why do I even try?”
“I’ll never make enough money as a coach.”
“I’m a FRAUD.”
When you encounter these thoughts, you’re dealing with your inner critic. 🌪️
These feelings of inadequacy are a normal part of the human experience. And we can all relate.
Your inner critic is a built-in defense mechanism that is constantly trying to protect you from embarrassment and failure. But that can become a bad thing when you allow it to hold you back - when you become paralyzed by fear. 😓
So here are four steps you can take to quiet your inner critic:
1️⃣ Ask yourself, “What is it that my inner critic is trying to protect me from?”
2️⃣ Think about this: When you are the highest and most healed version of yourself - when you’re NOT afraid - what do you know to be true?
3️⃣ Identify an important factor - Whose voice is it that your inner critic is trying to represent? Is it the voice of your parents? A friend? An enemy? Or, is it your own voice?
4️⃣ Take action: What action can you take to move (far) away from these unwanted messages and towards the truth of who you are?
Next time you find yourself fighting with your inner critic, remember: it’s just an outdated coping mechanism.
Don’t let it bully you.
Instead, remind yourself of who you really are and embrace your truth. 💖
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When your client needs a little motivation and empowerment, try reminding them of these things! 💙
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Getting ready for BOLD 2024! These women are like a tiny pinecone. They can grow up to create a forest.
Break Free to Bold is for ambitious women who are A-type personalities. They are used to being leaders and achievers but deserve a deep level of rest, attention, and activation that BOLD offers.
These women are ready to look deeper at what no longer serves them, to pull the covers on their selective vulnerability and who are ready to unbecome anything that isn’t really them.
I honor the women who are willing to do this level of work.
Let’s do this!
#beboldbeyou #embracechange #emotionalwellbeing #confidencebuilding #empowereomen
