Most coaches lose people in the way they talk about coaching. They describe their method. They outline their package. They explain how many sessions are included. None of that is what makes someone say yes. People don’t invest in coaching because of your neatly explained process. They invest because they believe it will help them […]
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This weekend, John and I celebrated 25 years of marriage. That sentence still feels wild to say. Twenty-five years of showing up. Of staying. Of becoming. We celebrated with intention. A night out for dinner. A long, slow day at Glen Ivy. On our actual anniversary, a show at the Pantages and another dinner—just the
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I just got rid of another pair of jeans. Not because I’m giving up. Not because they were worn out. But because they don’t fit who I am right now, literally or metaphorically. And here’s the thing: it’s taken me some time to be okay with that. No one prepares you for this part of
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Last month we talked about The Turn, that moment in a reconnection or connection call where you shift from surface-level small talk into something deeper. You got curious. You listened for the real story. You asked a bold question. Now here you are. They’re reflecting. They’re vulnerable. You’re at the edge of the offer. And
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My husband and I spent the last 10 months getting used to life as empty nesters. At first, we weren’t sure how to be in it. The house was quiet. The rhythm was different. It felt unfamiliar, even awkward. Not because we don’t like each other, but because we were in a new season, and
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